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Fallen for my partner

Posted by damian_t

11/22/2009 2:27:00 AM

Hi all,
I have just recently realised that I have fallen for my partner. We both take our dancing very seriously and this could be a potential career for us. I would like her to be more than just my dance partner, but my girlfriend as well. However, I am not sure if she has the same feelings for me and if i ask her out and she says no, that could make things awkward and lead to a possible breakup, which i do not want. What should I do?

Re: Fallen for my partner

Posted by Telemark

11/22/2009 5:38:00 AM

There can be no right or wrong answer, because it is a matter between the two of you, and both of your feelings count equally.

What ever you do, be honest: with yourself, as well as with your partner.

Fallen for my partner

Posted by comedance

11/22/2009 11:02:00 AM

HI Damian, after a dance you should suggest coffee or a snack and then tell your dance partner you are interested in her than just a dance partner. Ask her what she thinks.
You need to tell her so she knows what's on your mind.
If your silent you will regret it later.

Re: Fallen for my partner

Posted by totalwise

11/23/2009 6:24:00 AM

I have been salsa dancing for over a year now, and have had numerous salsa partners. I am a amatuer and by no means a professional. But if I looking to dance in a professional capacity I probably would not want a relationship with my dance partner. Because all the tension from your relationship will come into your dancing and affect your performance.

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